Probably should have the Discord tags of the owners for the invite-only PUG servers, as long as they consent to their Discord tag being shared. I will only share the invite links of some servers.
Also should add whether the server allows RGL banned players are not. Really important as quite a few of the active ones allow RGL banned players
NA 6s Pugs (unless otherwise stated)
Drift Pugs, Inactive (likely dead due to Jamillia getting perma'd);
Hoboleague, Dead (moved to All Pugs): https://discord.gg/4gpH739T2z
Dr Pepper Pugs, Inactive (owned by RainOfLight)
Mushroom Mann Pugs (NC-AM pugs), Dead (owned by MushroomMann)
scientist pugs, Dead (owned by Miperton)
Gem Pugs, Unknown Status (Default role cannot see anything, unknown owner): https://discord.gg/etewuHk
Deafened pugs, Is It Really Dead If It Never Lived, (owned by deafened)
Testco.TF, Dead (owned by Muddy), invites disabled; ran 6s with experimental maps
TF2Maps Competitive, Dead (sweglord227 is admin, unknown owner), https://discord.gg/EPQR4T6YgP (6s with experimental maps)
kitten pugs, Dead (owned by cron, killed after drama)
Resurrection Pugs, Is It Really Dead If It Never Lived, (owned by rainbow)
Ice Cream Pugs, Dead (owned by ooga booga)
LeCrumble Pugs, Dead (owned by LeCrum)
Also Shadow Wizard only allows AM-IM players
HL/Alt:
_realistic_worm_..., Unknown Status (owned by the smoke); another Passtime pug server
HLMixes, Dead (owned by NikolaNido): https://discord.gg/kudjAXD
Ultiduo City Pugs, Dead (owned by Cloud): https://discord.gg/duRxjaufPA
The Spooky Orchestra, Inactive (owned by Des1_): https://discord.gg/fbaFu8DzMd (partnered with Pottsfield HL pugs)
Summit Ultiduo, Dead (owned by Adwill): https://discord.gg/GMgQ8cVQJz (unable to do anything in server)
4s Passtime League, Active (owned by weeabruh): https://discord.gg/QNYUBC3RdQ
Red Pugs, Dead (owned by Davidredface): https://discord.gg/78cw3sGgbY (HL)
That's all I got. Cool that you made this list.