I know everyone will hate me for saying this; I'm already prepared for it.
I've said it before during the Japanese tsumani aid campaign, and I'll say it again now. There are better ways to spend your money.
What happened to ghos7ayama was tragic. But the true tragedy lies in what happened to his sister, and the emotional pain the family must now undergo. The pain of material loss is much lesser to any reasonable family.
He's already stated that he's not necessarily asking for donations, which implies that his family is prepared to try to make ends meet despites the hardships involved. There are countless others who do not have this luxury.
If you're a personal friend of ghost and simply wish to help him out because that's what friends do, by all means, go ahead. If, however, you're simply caught up in the sudden influx of altruism that you never knew flaring up within you (and if you don't believe this of yourself, ask: when was the last time you donated to an apolitical cause without having been asked? Include donation drive boxes in your query) then I must implore that you redirect your money to a greater cause.
What happened to ghos7ayama is a deep, personal tragedy that I'm very sorry to hear of. People are dying in droves because they're unable to afford the cheapest of vaccines, else starving, or dying from contaminated water.
The difference in the quality of life you can make for these people with the same amount of money that you would have sent to ghost is so vast that it is inhumane. Ghost's family might make part of rent and pay off a slight portion of his debts with a thousand dollars. The same amount could sustain an impoverished village for months.
Gve your money to your own causes. But please, consider what is you're trying to do - to improve the quality of life of a family in ill-fortune. Dumping thousands of dollars to an independent family is not the optimal, or even remotely efficient, way to go about it.
Again, I would like to extend my sincerest apologies to ghos7ayama and his family for daring to even utter such a suggestion.