truktrukI would avoid hair gel and opt for a pomade instead if you want a shiny finish with decent hold. Gel has a better hold but isn't good for your hair. Pomade is water-based so it'll wash out easily and not leave gross white flakes on your head if you happen to adjust your hair during the day.
With that said, most hair products are dependent on the thickness, length, and texture of your hair. I'd recommend picking out a hairstyle you want then looking up which products are best fit for the look. Fair warning, a lot of YouTube videos and articles on hair products are sponsored. In general, steer clear of products that say they are good for all hair types.
Kurt is the type of person to make hair styling sound interesting