It's really interesting that DarkNecrid of all people was taking the moral high ground on sexual abuse and unacceptable community behavior in the last thread; acting like some gleaming paragon of TF2 virtue because he's a MOD ON R/TRUETF2 (a real accomplishment) and a member of some self-declared "old guard" of UGC Highlander players.
This is the same man that wrote rape fantasy fiction without consent about "cumming" on my wife's face and "licking it off" and then was very confused and upset after he showed her that she didn't want to talk to or be around him anymore. He was also well known for approaching and befriending underage e-girls in pubs/centers circa 2013. I knew several people that were associated with him via UGC HL but didn't want to actively talk to him because he gave off a creepy, George Harvey vibe.
He also sent a lynch mob of his "old guard Highlander" friends to bombard my Tumblr at the time with messages to kill myself and that I was a "gross tranny faggot" after I told two members of his precious girl gamer harem that they weren't very good at Pyro/Medic.
TLDR; DarkNecrid is a super nice guy and isn't a creep in any manner whatsoever. He definitely has a leg to stand on in the debate about sexist/homophobic/racist behavior in the Team Fortress community, he's a mod on r/truetf2, after all.