Pankeyman Furthermore, I think girls would think I'm cooler and more appealing if I have my own place, would they want to bang me more if they knew we were gonna do it away from school? Also, if I lived alone would people think I am badass and mysterious? Do I have an automatic higher coolness rating if I have my own apartment? Would my peers want to come over and hang out with me after school more if they knew there was a nice, inviting and cozy place to visit or whatever? Or would being a distance aways deter them, and would they rather just stop by somebody’s dormitory room instead?
these shouldn't be the reason for making an important life choice imo.
Also why did you stop smoking weed?
Edit: can't you try the first two and see if you like it without having to commit to them?