One of my more developed trans-friends has been in a relationship with a guy for about 8 months, lots of dating and stuff. They seem to legitimately enjoy the company of each other and every time I see them they are usually pretty happy. There's a problem though. Her boyfriend doesn't know that she is trans and that she still has a dick and she's worried about suddenly telling him this 8 months into the relationship. I agree with her that it would have been better to tell him that she was trans about a month into the relationship to at least give it a chance; but after 8 months, it seems like her boyfriend might be pretty upset about it especially since he claims being 100% straight.
What do you think?
How would you feel if you were dating a pre-op trans without knowing and then she suddenly tells you after eight months?
One of my more developed trans-friends has been in a relationship with a guy for about 8 months, lots of dating and stuff. They seem to legitimately enjoy the company of each other and every time I see them they are usually pretty happy. There's a problem though. Her boyfriend doesn't know that she is trans and that she still has a dick and she's worried about suddenly telling him this 8 months into the relationship. I agree with her that it would have been better to tell him that she was trans about a month into the relationship to at least give it a chance; but after 8 months, it seems like her boyfriend might be pretty upset about it especially since he claims being 100% straight.
What do you think?
How would you feel if you were dating a pre-op trans without knowing and then she suddenly tells you after eight months?
as supportive as i am of lgbtq (being gay myself) don't you think this isn't the best place to ask for serious advice about something like that
as supportive as i am of lgbtq (being gay myself) don't you think this isn't the best place to ask for serious advice about something like that
just wondering to see how people here would react
just wondering to see how people here would react
m4risajust wondering to see how people here would react
fair enough i suppose
[quote=m4risa]just wondering to see how people here would react[/quote]fair enough i suppose
gg no re
More seriously, I'd be in shock for how long I've been with the person without noticing. Would not go well.
gg no re
More seriously, I'd be in shock for how long I've been with the person without noticing. Would not go well.
How do you go 8 months in a relationship with someone without ever having sex? Are they both in Middle School?
How do you go 8 months in a relationship with someone without ever having sex? Are they both in Middle School?
no, she started at 15 and shes 24 now, the reason this came up was because she's being pressured for it
no, she started at 15 and shes 24 now, the reason this came up was because she's being pressured for it
masterfulHow do you go 8 months in a relationship with someone without ever having sex? Are they both in Middle School?
did you ever stop to think that maybe s(he) wanted to avoid sex for this very reason
[quote=masterful]How do you go 8 months in a relationship with someone without ever having sex? Are they both in Middle School?[/quote]did you ever stop to think that maybe s(he) wanted to avoid sex for this very reason
Honestly for 8 months and not having a single sexually experience... I know with in about a month I started having some love with my Girlfriend... With in about 2 weeks I was having some field days with her bewbs... So I am kinda wondering if she has any breast implants? Or does she wear just a bra and stuff it? Also, if she has the money have her chop of that 7inch penis (Assuming she is 7inchs).
Still wondering on why the guy never made a move... It might be because he knows??? Or is a small penis himself and never had sex.
Honestly for 8 months and not having a single sexually experience... I know with in about a month I started having some love with my Girlfriend... With in about 2 weeks I was having some field days with her bewbs... So I am kinda wondering if she has any breast implants? Or does she wear just a bra and stuff it? Also, if she has the money have her chop of that 7inch penis (Assuming she is 7inchs).
Still wondering on why the guy never made a move... It might be because he knows??? Or is a small penis himself and never had sex.
He probably wont react well.
Unless he's into that. In which he'll react very well. Either way, relationships are built on trust. She needs to tell him, for better or worse. Wish her luck!
He probably wont react well.
Unless he's into that. In which he'll react very well. Either way, relationships are built on trust. She needs to tell him, for better or worse. Wish her luck!
I mean duh, she won't be happy being in a platonic relationship forever and he won't either, gotta let that shit out
I mean duh, she won't be happy being in a platonic relationship forever and he won't either, gotta let that shit out
if he breaks it off she can hit me up at mustardoverlord@gmail.com and id wreck dat azz
if he breaks it off she can hit me up at mustardoverlord@gmail.com and id wreck dat azz
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highlander team I'm in is called chix wif dix
there is literally no way he doesnt know by now
there is literally no way he doesnt know by now
If I were her I would break up with him without telling him the real reason why. Especially since he claimed he is 100% straight. It may sound harsh, but that's what I would do.
If I were her I would break up with him without telling him the real reason why. Especially since he claimed he is 100% straight. It may sound harsh, but that's what I would do.
that guy's gotta be pretty thick if he hasn't noticed "her" rise to the occasion during make-out sessions.
that guy's gotta be pretty thick if he hasn't noticed "her" rise to the occasion during make-out sessions.
maybe she just isnt thick enough ruwin
maybe she just isnt thick enough ruwin
Aaahahahah
dis gonn be gud
Aaahahahah
dis gonn be gud
She should probably tell him before their relationship escalates and he finds out on his own.
She should probably tell him before their relationship escalates and he finds out on his own.
What if the guy is also trans? And he has still to recieve his penis?
What if the guy is also trans? And he has still to recieve his penis?
Please record reaction marisa
Please record reaction marisa
if i were dating a guy who still didn't know i was trans after 8 months i would wait until a suitable occasion (eg. birthday party) and then put on my sexiest and most revealing outfit and be like "sweetie i have a massive surprise for you"
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but seriously, if they are both committed to the relationship they should talk about it openly, and see if they want to get more serious about it under those circumstances, keep it casual or break it off. there's not really anything you can do about it that won't (potentially) make it worse.
if i were dating a guy who still didn't know i was trans after 8 months i would wait until a suitable occasion (eg. birthday party) and then put on my sexiest and most revealing outfit and be like "sweetie i have a [i]massive[/i] surprise for you"
...........................
but seriously, if they are both committed to the relationship they should talk about it openly, and see if they want to get more serious about it under those circumstances, keep it casual or break it off. there's not really anything you can do about it that won't (potentially) make it worse.
I don't think this will end well. She probably should have eliminated any possible problem and told him right away.
I don't think this will end well. She probably should have eliminated any possible problem and told him right away.
Might as well go out and tell him. Waiting any longer is just digging a hole. Personally, I would react horribly and rudely. I'm an asshole though, so idk.
Might as well go out and tell him. Waiting any longer is just digging a hole. Personally, I would react horribly and rudely. I'm an asshole though, so idk.
>8 MONTHS WITHOUT EVEN SEEING EACHOTHER NAKED
>8 MONTHS WITHOUT EVEN SEEING EACHOTHER NAKED
can you post what happens when he finds out?
can you post what happens when he finds out?
vaughncan you post what happens when he finds out?
Bonus points if it can be caught on camera
[quote=vaughn]can you post what happens when he finds out?[/quote]
Bonus points if it can be caught on camera
hycoloursvaughncan you post what happens when he finds out?
Bonus points if it can be caught on camera
Please just go back to 4chan
[quote=hycolours][quote=vaughn]can you post what happens when he finds out?[/quote]
Bonus points if it can be caught on camera[/quote] Please just go back to 4chan
Hallowhycoloursvaughncan you post what happens when he finds out?
Bonus points if it can be caught on camera
Please just go back to 4chan
I'm banned for a week
[quote=Hallow][quote=hycolours][quote=vaughn]can you post what happens when he finds out?[/quote]
Bonus points if it can be caught on camera[/quote] Please just go back to 4chan[/quote]
I'm banned for a week