joddwhat do you mean by managing the carbs?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j3Igk5nyZE4
When she eats carbs, she really over eats. If we go out to eat she'll gorge on bread etc. We've talked about it a few times, but I really don't want to be a dick and micromanage her every meal, especially when I drink too much beer. Tactfulness is not a strength of mine.
DarkstarHang cleans are usually one of the more advance lifts to learn. Glad to hear things are going well! One thing you could try for deadlifts would be Rackpulls. This should take some of the stress from her knees.
here is an example of a rackpull: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9MLLp0G8R8w
This looks like it could work. Thanks.