when u want to build a family together but all he wants to do is smokeing weed on cam in discord with his firends and sharing hoe stories :(

any thoughts on the Belgian healthcare system

probs LOLGUY

boogers

looks like someone was projecting this whole time
https://imgur.com/a/VqjU94E (jeven on my steam profile btw)

jeven the type of loser to have so little going on in his life he spends his days interacting with people playing a game he's banned from

I'm also glad the predator didn't sign your shirt, Rahmed. What a relief for the tf2 community.

for anyone in the UK (I think the Isle of Man falls under UK jurisdiction?) there is a lot of information to be found here on how to report: https://www.ceop.police.uk/Safety-Centre/How-can-CEOP-help-me-YP/.

While uberchain's experience sounds horrible and unfair, I think (hope!) the UK's judicial system does a better job at protecting whistleblowers. Either way have a read through it if you feel you could help.

are you broken?

I think it's really important to stress here that he seemed to endear them to him especially by talking about their "potential" and selling them a dream (one that was believable given that he played in the higher divisions) which then made them dependent on him to achieve said dream. It's manipulation 101 and the fact that it can so easily happen because you can literally dm anyone and apart from those two people nobody will know is kind of frightening.

I also feel the scale of tf2 might make it easier for groomers to manipulate children (not sure if this is true) because unlike bigger games tf2 has a lot more spaces where high level/respected players interact with newer and often younger players. Maybe having some kind of vetting when it comes to mentors in newbie servers etc would be good but I have no idea how you would realistically implement that without going full-blown police state. It seems some people here had bad experiences with coyo, but I do not get the sense any of them would have known enough to warn against him being a mentor to so many newer players for example...

they took away the man's legs, but they could never take away his ability to make awful posts

oh yeah I'm a massive hypocrite I realised that when typing it out, but at least I don't try to pscyhoanalyse your behaviour jeven I just think you're a racist cunt

I think you are really breaching into armchair psychologist territory here. Having watched some of the VOD I agree his behaviour in pugs is problematic and, frankly, sad, but that's about the only conclusion you can reasonably draw from the footage. If that makes playing with him unenjoyable then you can either not play with him or try to reason with him, although the latter has proven to be nearly impossible. All of this makes sense and seems productive moving forward. Simply change or stop your interactions with him if you care.

What doesn't seem productive, however, are long discussions about the mental state/life of a person you do not know personally. That is not me defending b4nny's behaviour, but reading all these efforts to psychoanalyse b4nny is painful. At best, it feels like a misguided attempt to help and at worst it comes across as you building up your own life by judging someone else's. Just because you are a member of the same community and you share a digital space does not give you license to voyeuristically theorise about someone else's mental state or whether their life is rewarding or not. Please stick to talking about his behaviour in-game, anything else is unproductive and really won't make a difference it just makes you sound pretentious. (And yes I am aware that this post probably sounds fucking pretentious on my end as well dw)

it's hard to hear I know x

I'm just pointing out you're a hypocrite for saying "we got called the n-word for no reason" when you've done the same and even recently got banned for a season due to racist behaviour.
I couldn't care less about your default L, stop playing double scrims 5 days a week and go touch some grass