Just going to point out that being shit talked at doesn't necessarily mean you have to hit back harder...
And be careful about who you talk to, especially people you don't know. For all you know, I could be in IM.
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Just going to point out that being shit talked at doesn't necessarily mean you have to hit back harder...
And be careful about who you talk to, especially people you don't know. For all you know, I could be in IM.
And be careful about who you talk to, especially people you don't know. For all you know, I could be in IM.
Kaeyelbeing shit talked at doesn't necessarily mean you have to hit back harder...
This is so, so important. Shutting up and letting them yell at the air doesn't mean you lose. It means you're better than them because you're refusing to get dragged down into the mud. If they're getting to you, mute them and keep playing.
I mean, what do you gain exactly by responding in kind? Satisfaction? I suppose so sometimes, but then you've opened yourself up to actually losing. You're putting your good mood at risk. Your pride too, if you insist on keeping it. And I think this thread shows better than anything just how much it can come back to bite you.
When everyone else sees somebody shit talking you and you just quietly taking it, they don't think you're weak. They think the other guy's an idiot, and if they think anything about you at all, they respect you for being more mature.
[quote=Kaeyel]being shit talked at doesn't necessarily mean you have to hit back harder...[/quote]
This is so, so important. Shutting up and letting them yell at the air doesn't mean you lose. It means you're better than them because you're refusing to get dragged down into the mud. If they're getting to you, mute them and keep playing.
I mean, what do you gain exactly by responding in kind? Satisfaction? I suppose so sometimes, but then you've opened yourself up to actually losing. You're putting your good mood at risk. Your pride too, if you insist on keeping it. And I think this thread shows better than anything just how much it can come back to bite you.
When everyone else sees somebody shit talking you and you just quietly taking it, they don't think you're weak. They think the other guy's an idiot, and if they think anything about you at all, they respect you for being more mature.
This is so, so important. Shutting up and letting them yell at the air doesn't mean you lose. It means you're better than them because you're refusing to get dragged down into the mud. If they're getting to you, mute them and keep playing.
I mean, what do you gain exactly by responding in kind? Satisfaction? I suppose so sometimes, but then you've opened yourself up to actually losing. You're putting your good mood at risk. Your pride too, if you insist on keeping it. And I think this thread shows better than anything just how much it can come back to bite you.
When everyone else sees somebody shit talking you and you just quietly taking it, they don't think you're weak. They think the other guy's an idiot, and if they think anything about you at all, they respect you for being more mature.
Wow. I didn't think of it that way. Apologizing to the people of this thread is something very hard to swallow but apologizing for the way I acted is a bit more understandable. I guess that it was the kid in me replying to the posts and my ego bringing me back.
I'm glad I did come back and read your post though AbsolutelyNobody. I'm completely willing to learn and grow to become better at what I'm trying to do. If this will help bring me closer to that goal then I'll do it.
My fanclub was a joke by friend of mine to be honest. It just kinda exploded since I was someone who pubbed a lot. Not that I was spamming invites n shit. I got the idea that if I ever decided to stream in the future that maybe I could use it to get a lot of viewers really fast and it would be easier. But thats something I just never got around to doing.. Whatever. I do use it as an insult though. To people who show hate towards me. I should stop doing that.
I should stop inviting people to hate on me like if it makes me stronger cause in reality I just brush it off and think its just going to blow over. Obviously it doesn't just go away.
So I apologize for the way I've acted towards you guys. I'm still in that young frame of mind that I can't just respect someone for no reason at all. So I was quite rude. I'm sorry about that. Being ignorant is never my intention but something I always end up doing.
Wow. I didn't think of it that way. Apologizing to the people of this thread is something very hard to swallow but apologizing for the way I acted is a bit more understandable. I guess that it was the kid in me replying to the posts and my ego bringing me back.
I'm glad I did come back and read your post though AbsolutelyNobody. I'm completely willing to learn and grow to become better at what I'm trying to do. If this will help bring me closer to that goal then I'll do it.
My fanclub was a joke by friend of mine to be honest. It just kinda exploded since I was someone who pubbed a lot. Not that I was spamming invites n shit. I got the idea that if I ever decided to stream in the future that maybe I could use it to get a lot of viewers really fast and it would be easier. But thats something I just never got around to doing.. Whatever. I do use it as an insult though. To people who show hate towards me. I should stop doing that.
I should stop inviting people to hate on me like if it makes me stronger cause in reality I just brush it off and think its just going to blow over. Obviously it doesn't just go away.
So I apologize for the way I've acted towards you guys. I'm still in that young frame of mind that I can't just respect someone for no reason at all. So I was quite rude. I'm sorry about that. Being ignorant is never my intention but something I always end up doing.
I'm glad I did come back and read your post though AbsolutelyNobody. I'm completely willing to learn and grow to become better at what I'm trying to do. If this will help bring me closer to that goal then I'll do it.
My fanclub was a joke by friend of mine to be honest. It just kinda exploded since I was someone who pubbed a lot. Not that I was spamming invites n shit. I got the idea that if I ever decided to stream in the future that maybe I could use it to get a lot of viewers really fast and it would be easier. But thats something I just never got around to doing.. Whatever. I do use it as an insult though. To people who show hate towards me. I should stop doing that.
I should stop inviting people to hate on me like if it makes me stronger cause in reality I just brush it off and think its just going to blow over. Obviously it doesn't just go away.
So I apologize for the way I've acted towards you guys. I'm still in that young frame of mind that I can't just respect someone for no reason at all. So I was quite rude. I'm sorry about that. Being ignorant is never my intention but something I always end up doing.
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