this happened to me recently, i was snapping n texting a girl for almost 3 months. in the beginning she was dropping mad hints but as time went on she stopped. so after 3 months i went in for the finesse and she already found another man... in my experience youre in too deep but if yall been snapping n shit for 2 months you might as well go for it at this point...
so if you do go for it just get some of yall mutual frends together and make sure she the center of attention from you. thats when you ask her to go back to your place or maybe to get some food or something and thats when you drop the finesse my man.....
this happened to me recently, i was snapping n texting a girl for almost 3 months. in the beginning she was dropping mad hints but as time went on she stopped. so after 3 months i went in for the finesse and she already found another man... in my experience youre in too deep but if yall been snapping n shit for 2 months you might as well go for it at this point...
so if you do go for it just get some of yall mutual frends together and make sure she the center of attention from you. thats when you ask her to go back to your place or maybe to get some food or something and thats when you drop the finesse my man.....
Call her mom and ask her if her daughter likes you.
Call her mom and ask her if her daughter likes you.
randoPM me
Pretty sure he's looking for a real relationship, not a twitter meme girl one
[quote=rando]PM me[/quote]
Pretty sure he's looking for a real relationship, not a twitter meme girl one
better late than never do it tomorrow and if you actually like this person (beyond just as a fuck) then stay friends even if she says no
better late than never do it tomorrow and if you actually like this person (beyond just as a fuck) then stay friends even if she says no
http://www.dummies.com/how-to/content/the-essentials-of-finessing-in-bridge.html
Sounds like u know her well enough that u should just ask her out.
Sounds like u know her well enough that u should just ask her out.
Honestly I think it comes down to asking if your friendship is worth more than how you feel about her. Theres not a time limit on people developing feelings; I was close friends wih my girlfriend for years before I asked her out. If you liked her the entire time then yeah you probably could have talked about it sooner but either way I think its worth the risk. At least no matter what happens you wont regret not trying.
Id say the time for finesse has passed and now youve just got to put yourself out there. Good luck tho man!
Honestly I think it comes down to asking if your friendship is worth more than how you feel about her. Theres not a time limit on people developing feelings; I was close friends wih my girlfriend for years before I asked her out. If you liked her the entire time then yeah you probably could have talked about it sooner but either way I think its worth the risk. At least no matter what happens you wont regret not trying.
Id say the time for finesse has passed and now youve just got to put yourself out there. Good luck tho man!
throwing in a really wild guess but why dont you ask her out??
throwing in a really wild guess but why dont you ask her out??
smzithrowing in a really wild guess but why dont you ask her out??
What the hell dude, you can't just do that like a normal person! He should obviously get her to play TF2 and then buy her a $100,- ring with a "funny" description.
Seriously though if you're already hanging out casually and you're feeling something, just tell her you'd like to go for a walk/drive/drink/bite together sometime. It's not a big commitment like an actual dinner+movie, but it is a little alone time.
[quote=smzi]throwing in a really wild guess but why dont you ask her out??[/quote]
What the hell dude, you can't just do that like a normal person! He should obviously get her to play TF2 and then buy her a $100,- ring with a "funny" description.
Seriously though if you're already hanging out casually and you're feeling something, just tell her you'd like to go for a walk/drive/drink/bite together sometime. It's not a big commitment like an actual dinner+movie, but it is a little alone time.
capnfapnwe gotta know more shit about this girl before we can help you. How did you meet her? Is she shy or outgoing? does she have a big group of friends? How is her relationship with her father? Does she have any issues you can take advantage of?
THIS. If she has daddy issues, run the fuck away as fast as you possibly can. They are psychotic. Trust me blood, it aint wurf it
[quote=capnfapn]we gotta know more shit about this girl before we can help you. How did you meet her? Is she shy or outgoing? does she have a big group of friends? [b]How is her relationship with her father?[/b] Does she have any issues you can take advantage of?[/quote]
THIS. If she has daddy issues, run the fuck away as fast as you possibly can. They are psychotic. Trust me blood, it aint wurf it
yaugcapnfapnwe gotta know more shit about this girl before we can help you. How did you meet her? Is she shy or outgoing? does she have a big group of friends? How is her relationship with her father? Does she have any issues you can take advantage of?
THIS. If she has daddy issues, run the fuck away as fast as you possibly can. They are psychotic. Trust me blood, it aint wurf it
nah fam we just in there for that hot daddy sex
[quote=yaug][quote=capnfapn]we gotta know more shit about this girl before we can help you. How did you meet her? Is she shy or outgoing? does she have a big group of friends? [b]How is her relationship with her father?[/b] Does she have any issues you can take advantage of?[/quote]
THIS. If she has daddy issues, run the fuck away as fast as you possibly can. They are psychotic. Trust me blood, it aint wurf it[/quote]
nah fam we just in there for that hot daddy sex
2 months is quite a long time so I'm sure you've taken the time to find out what you need to know about your girl. First thing you wanna do is to decide and make sure you know what you want from her, which would be a potential relationship in this case. 2 months in, you two should know eachother pretty well now so take her to one of her favorite places, have a good time and then just go in man, if she says no(hopefully not) its unfortunate but there are plenty of fish in the sea and if this is your first time doing something like this it'll make it a bit easier the next time. Relationships are usually not the easiest thing but hell, its been 2 months, hopefully you two mesh and work out fine. Just dont get her pregnant..Goodluck fam. Finesse da plug
2 months is quite a long time so I'm sure you've taken the time to find out what you need to know about your girl. First thing you wanna do is to decide and make sure you know what you want from her, which would be a potential relationship in this case. 2 months in, you two should know eachother pretty well now so take her to one of her favorite places, have a good time and then just go in man, if she says no(hopefully not) its unfortunate but there are plenty of fish in the sea and if this is your first time doing something like this it'll make it a bit easier the next time. Relationships are usually not the easiest thing but hell, its been 2 months, hopefully you two mesh and work out fine. Just dont get her pregnant..Goodluck fam. Finesse da plug
"Are you available for dinner next Saturday evening? I know this awesome place that I think we might enjoy."
Chicks dig confidence man. If she likes you she'll say yes, if not then don't waste your time and move on!
edit: what Huck said is probably the best advise you've received on this thread
HuckIt's probably too late if you talk that often and she hasn't dropped any hints sorry. Should have asked her after like a week or so. So many dudes think that they can just talk to a girl for months on end and then she'll randomly just drop her pants in front of you but you have to make it known relatively early that you are into her in a romantic way.
Whatever you do don't turn into one of the retard neckbeards who complains about the "friend zone"
Literally tell her tomorrow that you like her as more than just a friend and ask her out. Don't try to "finesse" her or whatever that will work like once in a blue moon. If she says no then you can still be her friend but just realize that she'll probably never be into you in that way.
"Are you available for dinner next Saturday evening? I know this awesome place that I think we might enjoy."
Chicks dig confidence man. If she likes you she'll say yes, if not then don't waste your time and move on!
edit: what Huck said is probably the best advise you've received on this thread
[quote=Huck]It's probably too late if you talk that often and she hasn't dropped any hints sorry. Should have asked her after like a week or so. So many dudes think that they can just talk to a girl for months on end and then she'll randomly just drop her pants in front of you but you have to make it known relatively early that you are into her in a romantic way.
Whatever you do don't turn into one of the retard neckbeards who complains about the "friend zone"
Literally tell her tomorrow that you like her as more than just a friend and ask her out. Don't try to "finesse" her or whatever that will work like once in a blue moon. If she says no then you can still be her friend but just realize that she'll probably never be into you in that way.[/quote]
All this bad advice lmao.
All this bad advice lmao.
She's a hoe for somebody else, remember that
She's a hoe for somebody else, remember that
The virginometer is off the charts in this thread
The virginometer is off the charts in this thread
literally the last major dramabomb involved TF2 players being bad at romance, so surely they're the best kind of ppl to ask for advice
literally the last major dramabomb involved TF2 players being bad at romance, so surely they're the best kind of ppl to ask for advice
the best part of this thread was alder asking what does finesse mean
LOL
the best part of this thread was alder asking what does finesse mean
LOL
well first of all i'd recommend not "snapping" girls, most of them I know already have back problems
well first of all i'd recommend not "snapping" girls, most of them I know already have back problems
kevthe best part of this thread was alder asking what does finesse mean
LOL
http://puu.sh/pc1iS/9d01f864eb.png
i just wanted to know if he was aiming to do her intricately
[quote=kev]the best part of this thread was alder asking what does finesse mean
LOL[/quote]
[img]http://puu.sh/pc1iS/9d01f864eb.png[/img]
i just wanted to know if he was aiming to do her intricately
randoPM me
careful rando tryna lowkey cuck her from u
[quote=rando]PM me[/quote]
careful rando tryna lowkey cuck her from u
Mann up, and tell her you like her or ask her out irl if u know where she lives (w/o stalking). There is no better way to show someone you love them.
Mann up, and tell her you like her or ask her out irl if u know where she lives (w/o stalking). There is no better way to show someone you love them.
man my only goal for 2016 was to stop having to hear the word cuck but its not going well so far
man my only goal for 2016 was to stop having to hear the word cuck but its not going well so far
Stand outside her window at 3am and shout her name,
Stand outside her window at 3am and shout her name,
http://puu.sh/pc97Q/7ccc3d8193.jpg
catjust be yourself dude :D
he waited 2 months to ask her out and now asks tftv how to do it. lets be honest here, the last thing he should be is himself.
[quote=cat]just be yourself dude :D[/quote]
he waited 2 months to ask her out and now asks tftv how to do it. lets be honest here, the last thing he should be is himself.