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Breaking bad habits?
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#31
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PankeymanShpeeismeporn will probably be the hardest. I think you should watch a tf2 cast or a cast of a different game you like instead of porn. It's men talking so you probably won't be horny anymore after a while. And if you're in bed, they'll talk you right to sleep.I have been so busy playing ff14 all day on my new comp that I haven't had the chance to touch my dick because I'm either getting gains irl or in the video game. Also I take this new comp around with me to other people's houses so I don't want dirty pics on it, that's just asking for trouble. All these circumstances just seemed like a capital opportunity to just phase out pronz. It has been eight days so far and I don't really miss it.

honestly the best solution to get off porn is to get a girlfriend. I know when i had one during the winter i didn't watch a second.

[quote=Pankeyman][quote=Shpeeisme]porn will probably be the hardest. I think you should watch a tf2 cast or a cast of a different game you like instead of porn. It's men talking so you probably won't be horny anymore after a while. And if you're in bed, they'll talk you right to sleep.[/quote]
I have been so busy playing ff14 all day on my new comp that I haven't had the chance to touch my dick because I'm either getting gains irl or in the video game. Also I take this new comp around with me to other people's houses so I don't want dirty pics on it, that's just asking for trouble. All these circumstances just seemed like a capital opportunity to just phase out pronz. It has been eight days so far and I don't really miss it.[/quote]
honestly the best solution to get off porn is to get a girlfriend. I know when i had one during the winter i didn't watch a second.
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#32
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I've never had a problem with cursing, nor have I known anyone who had a problem with cursing, though I feel like that could lend to where I'm from (Massachusetts)

I've never had a problem with cursing, nor have I known anyone who had a problem with cursing, though I feel like that could lend to where I'm from (Massachusetts)
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#33
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atidere thats dangerous territory to discuss with panky lol

atidere thats dangerous territory to discuss with panky lol
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#34
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smoking

started cuz it made me feel better when i was down and now it brings me shame every time i light up

smoking

started cuz it made me feel better when i was down and now it brings me shame every time i light up
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#35
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Collaidemaybe I'm too lighthearted but are ppl really that sensetive to cursing in general?
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i'm not talking about important stuff like job interviews...

i think part of it isn't necessarily that people would be offended/are sensitive to swearing but sometimes it's kinda just out of place/slips out on accident and/or isn't necessary

it's a habit i'm also personally trying to stop because while nobody i'm around really is offended by them it is stupid hearing myself reiterate the same swear words like every 5 minutes

[quote=Collaide]maybe I'm too lighthearted but are ppl really that sensetive to cursing in general?

[spoiler]i'm not talking about important stuff like job interviews...[/spoiler][/quote]

i think part of it isn't necessarily that people would be offended/are sensitive to swearing but sometimes it's kinda just out of place/slips out on accident and/or isn't necessary

it's a habit i'm also personally trying to stop because while nobody i'm around really is offended by them it is stupid hearing myself reiterate the same swear words like every 5 minutes
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#36
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self harm sucks especially when its one of yr only coping mechanisms from crippling depression

self harm sucks especially when its one of yr only coping mechanisms from crippling depression
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#37
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gabbyself harm sucks especially when its one of yr only coping mechanisms from crippling depression

didn't want to be the first one to bring it up but i feel you fam

[quote=gabby]self harm sucks especially when its one of yr only coping mechanisms from crippling depression[/quote]
didn't want to be the first one to bring it up but i feel you fam
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#38
refresh.tf
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SkittlesBT i think part of it isn't necessarily that people would be offended/are sensitive to swearing but sometimes it's kinda just out of place/slips out on accident and/or isn't necessary

it's a habit i'm also personally trying to stop because while nobody i'm around really is offended by them it is stupid hearing myself reiterate the same swear words like every 5 minutes

"It is"... It is what you make it to be. You seem to think it's a definitive fact, while in reality everything you think is bad about swearing is 100% subjective

[quote=SkittlesBT] i think part of it isn't necessarily that people would be offended/are sensitive to swearing but sometimes it's kinda just out of place/slips out on accident and/or isn't necessary

it's a habit i'm also personally trying to stop because while nobody i'm around really is offended by them it is stupid hearing myself reiterate the same swear words like every 5 minutes[/quote]
"It is"... It is what you make it to be. You seem to think it's a definitive fact, while in reality everything you think is bad about swearing is 100% subjective
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#39
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Air_i go weeks at a time without biting my nails to let them grow back in because i get near orgasmic pleasure from biting off my nails. if i see someone else with long nails i want to bite their nails off for them and then have them slide in between my teeth so i can play with them with my tongue.

Can't relate to this enough but I don't feel this way about all nails because lots of people have gross hands, I have an obsession with my wife's nails but she has not let me bite them and likely will never give in.

[quote=Air_]
i go weeks at a time without biting my nails to let them grow back in because i get near orgasmic pleasure from biting off my nails. if i see someone else with long nails i want to bite their nails off for them and then have them slide in between my teeth so i can play with them with my tongue.[/quote]


Can't relate to this enough but I don't feel this way about all nails because lots of people have gross hands, I have an obsession with my wife's nails but she has not let me bite them and likely will never give in.
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#40
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Rekusosmoking

started cuz it made me feel better when i was down and now it brings me shame every time i light up

Isn't there a difference between a "bad habit" and a full blown addition? I think smoking would fall under the addiction category. I don't really know any smokers who do it out of habit who are not already addicted. I could be wrong in my thinking because i don't know many smokers to begin with but it seems to make sense.

[quote=Rekuso]smoking

started cuz it made me feel better when i was down and now it brings me shame every time i light up[/quote]

Isn't there a difference between a "bad habit" and a full blown addition? I think smoking would fall under the addiction category. I don't really know any smokers who do it out of habit who are not already addicted. I could be wrong in my thinking because i don't know many smokers to begin with but it seems to make sense.
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#41
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Tino_How much porn do you watch for it to be a bad habit? Afaik jerking it is a normal and healty thing to do.

the idea of not watching porn is that it makes you less fucked up around sexual situations since you don't get used to the instant gratification of porn or the awkward world view caused by bad acting

[quote=Tino_]How much porn do you watch for it to be a bad habit? Afaik jerking it is a normal and healty thing to do.[/quote]
the idea of not watching porn is that it makes you less fucked up around sexual situations since you don't get used to the instant gratification of porn or the awkward world view caused by bad acting
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#42
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eeeTino_How much porn do you watch for it to be a bad habit? Afaik jerking it is a normal and healty thing to do.the idea of not watching porn is that it makes you less fucked up around sexual situations since you don't get used to the instant gratification of porn or the awkward world view caused by bad acting

Or you could just realize that girls won't fuck you every time you offer "pizza with XXXTRA SAUSAGE"

[quote=eee][quote=Tino_]How much porn do you watch for it to be a bad habit? Afaik jerking it is a normal and healty thing to do.[/quote]
the idea of not watching porn is that it makes you less fucked up around sexual situations since you don't get used to the instant gratification of porn or the awkward world view caused by bad acting[/quote]

Or you could just realize that girls won't fuck you every time you offer "pizza with XXXTRA SAUSAGE"
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#43
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For me it's stroking my hair whenever I'm stressed (usually for school, rushing on my homework, taking a test, etc.). Then eventually it turns into sort of hair-pulling almost and a few hairs just come out. It's a pretty bad habit because I feel like it'll build up quickly and I'll just have random bald spots early.

For me it's stroking my hair whenever I'm stressed (usually for school, rushing on my homework, taking a test, etc.). Then eventually it turns into sort of hair-pulling almost and a few hairs just come out. It's a pretty bad habit because I feel like it'll build up quickly and I'll just have random bald spots early.
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#44
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SUSAltdFor me it's stroking my hair whenever I'm stressed (usually for school, rushing on my homework, taking a test, etc.). Then eventually it turns into sort of hair-pulling almost and a few hairs just come out. It's a pretty bad habit because I feel like it'll build up quickly and I'll just have random bald spots early.

whenever you do that try to tap some interesting rhythms and focus on them
i have this problem and it doesnt help that i have some skin condition in my scalp that makes it itch like a bitch, doing this tapping thing helps me a bunch

[quote=SUSAltd]For me it's stroking my hair whenever I'm stressed (usually for school, rushing on my homework, taking a test, etc.). Then eventually it turns into sort of hair-pulling almost and a few hairs just come out. It's a pretty bad habit because I feel like it'll build up quickly and I'll just have random bald spots early.[/quote]
whenever you do that try to tap some interesting rhythms and focus on them
i have this problem and it doesnt help that i have some skin condition in my scalp that makes it itch like a bitch, doing this tapping thing helps me a bunch
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#45
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Find new addictions to balance out the old ones.

Find new addictions to balance out the old ones.
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#46
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Get a bitch to do the jerking for you

Get a bitch to do the jerking for you
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#47
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whenever you curse, say "i mean x" afterward eventually you can stop cursing all together

whenever you curse, say "i mean x" afterward eventually you can stop cursing all together
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#48
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umlflaccidI've never had a problem with cursing, nor have I known anyone who had a problem with cursing, though I feel like that could lend to where I'm from (Massachusetts)

I'm from MA too, but I think it depends on where you are in the state. Some parts are way more raw than others.

[quote=umlflaccid]I've never had a problem with cursing, nor have I known anyone who had a problem with cursing, though I feel like that could lend to where I'm from (Massachusetts)[/quote]

I'm from MA too, but I think it depends on where you are in the state. Some parts are way more raw than others.
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#49
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I didn't read the whole thread before, but to quit porn, this is what you need : https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap

And here are some random things you can do if you begin to watch porn and obviously masturbate :
- Go to listen to music quite loudly, it's said quite often and I approve it.
- Go take a cold shower
- Try to focus on what you want to be in the future
- Go on the nofap reddit :)

I didn't read the whole thread before, but to quit porn, this is what you need : https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap

And here are some random things you can do if you begin to watch porn and obviously masturbate :
- Go to listen to music quite loudly, it's said quite often and I approve it.
- Go take a cold shower
- Try to focus on what you want to be in the future
- Go on the nofap reddit :)
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