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NurseyThere are no magical words that will magically cure you of anything that is constantly attacking all of the doubts you have of life in your mind. It sucks that this is how it works, but no matter how grave it feels it does get better. You've most likely heard these words echo a million times through all the solutions you've attempted to do, but there is a reason this is a common thing people say. It's a very true statement. The fact that you posted on TFTV asking for any advice proves you still have some drive in you that you still want to hold onto some sort of hope in life. Cling onto that piece of hope and make it bigger than you ever could have imagined.
Back in the years of 2013-2015 I was hit by a constant barrage of what I can only call some sort of anxiety attack/panic attacks. I've never seen a professional so I never figured out what the actual feelings were, but I can tell you I was severely upset with my life. I legitimately almost never left my house during those two years. I stayed inside and played TF2 all day. People most likely remember those days of me where I constantly lashed out on others but still acted overly sensitive. I still obviously have my moments, but I still drastically improved as a person in 2016 and I still work to improve my character now. I went from legitimately being too afraid to leave my own room, to nearly wanting to spend all the time I can with my friends and my girlfriend.
That paragraph may seem pretty irrelevant, but I want you to know I knew exactly how you feel. Millions of people know how you feel, and many have made permanent decisions because of that feeling. That tiny bit of hope I mentioned earlier, that was the same hope I have. Work as hard as you can. As far as actual advice goes, work out some. I'm obviously still a tiny person but the little bit of working out I did made such a good impact on my life (I went from 90 pounds to 130 from 2015 to 2016). The most important part were my friends. I didn't hang with them at all, I almost avoided all confrontation with anyone physically. Getting out of my comfort zone was a priority for me, so I tried my best socializing anyway I can. I started with the two friends I still had from grade school. They still remembered me. They invited me to parties and I went and made even more friends. If you like staying up late, sleep earlier. People really undervalue what staying up late does as far as impacting your emotion does. I don't know if you stay up late, but I guarantee if you do that sleeping early will help make some improvements.
Those three things are stuff I worked on heavily. I still have those little moments of doubt in my mind, but the more I work towards making myself better, the less it echos in my mind. It's so easy to forget how I use to be. Please never forget it does get better. Nothing will improve when you give up.
Always cling onto hope.
Yes this
[quote=Nursey]There are no magical words that will magically cure you of anything that is constantly attacking all of the doubts you have of life in your mind. It sucks that this is how it works, but no matter how grave it feels it does get better. You've most likely heard these words echo a million times through all the solutions you've attempted to do, but there is a reason this is a common thing people say. It's a very true statement. The fact that you posted on TFTV asking for any advice proves you still have some drive in you that you still want to hold onto some sort of hope in life. Cling onto that piece of hope and make it bigger than you ever could have imagined.
Back in the years of 2013-2015 I was hit by a constant barrage of what I can only call some sort of anxiety attack/panic attacks. I've never seen a professional so I never figured out what the actual feelings were, but I can tell you I was severely upset with my life. I legitimately almost never left my house during those two years. I stayed inside and played TF2 all day. People most likely remember those days of me where I constantly lashed out on others but still acted overly sensitive. I still obviously have my moments, but I still drastically improved as a person in 2016 and I still work to improve my character now. I went from legitimately being too afraid to leave my own room, to nearly wanting to spend all the time I can with my friends and my girlfriend.
That paragraph may seem pretty irrelevant, but I want you to know I knew exactly how you feel. Millions of people know how you feel, and many have made permanent decisions because of that feeling. That tiny bit of hope I mentioned earlier, that was the same hope I have. Work as hard as you can. As far as actual advice goes, work out some. I'm obviously still a tiny person but the little bit of working out I did made such a good impact on my life (I went from 90 pounds to 130 from 2015 to 2016). The most important part were my friends. I didn't hang with them at all, I almost avoided all confrontation with anyone physically. Getting out of my comfort zone was a priority for me, so I tried my best socializing anyway I can. I started with the two friends I still had from grade school. They still remembered me. They invited me to parties and I went and made even more friends. If you like staying up late, sleep earlier. People really undervalue what staying up late does as far as impacting your emotion does. I don't know if you stay up late, but I guarantee if you do that sleeping early will help make some improvements.
Those three things are stuff I worked on heavily. I still have those little moments of doubt in my mind, but the more I work towards making myself better, the less it echos in my mind. It's so easy to forget how I use to be. Please never forget it does get better. Nothing will improve when you give up.
Always cling onto hope.[/quote]
Yes this
Back in the years of 2013-2015 I was hit by a constant barrage of what I can only call some sort of anxiety attack/panic attacks. I've never seen a professional so I never figured out what the actual feelings were, but I can tell you I was severely upset with my life. I legitimately almost never left my house during those two years. I stayed inside and played TF2 all day. People most likely remember those days of me where I constantly lashed out on others but still acted overly sensitive. I still obviously have my moments, but I still drastically improved as a person in 2016 and I still work to improve my character now. I went from legitimately being too afraid to leave my own room, to nearly wanting to spend all the time I can with my friends and my girlfriend.
That paragraph may seem pretty irrelevant, but I want you to know I knew exactly how you feel. Millions of people know how you feel, and many have made permanent decisions because of that feeling. That tiny bit of hope I mentioned earlier, that was the same hope I have. Work as hard as you can. As far as actual advice goes, work out some. I'm obviously still a tiny person but the little bit of working out I did made such a good impact on my life (I went from 90 pounds to 130 from 2015 to 2016). The most important part were my friends. I didn't hang with them at all, I almost avoided all confrontation with anyone physically. Getting out of my comfort zone was a priority for me, so I tried my best socializing anyway I can. I started with the two friends I still had from grade school. They still remembered me. They invited me to parties and I went and made even more friends. If you like staying up late, sleep earlier. People really undervalue what staying up late does as far as impacting your emotion does. I don't know if you stay up late, but I guarantee if you do that sleeping early will help make some improvements.
Those three things are stuff I worked on heavily. I still have those little moments of doubt in my mind, but the more I work towards making myself better, the less it echos in my mind. It's so easy to forget how I use to be. Please never forget it does get better. Nothing will improve when you give up.
Always cling onto hope.[/quote]
Yes this
I lost 2 of my best friend 10 years ago because of that. life is hard sometime but you can endure that , life will be better for you. Just change your environment like they said before me. Clearly its the best advice here. It worked for me and many other. The thing i did when i was younger and not very good in my mind, was to get a job in snow station alone during 4 months. at this moment you just rediscorver yourself and have other vision of life. You re not alone bro. hope you understand my poor english too
I lost 2 of my best friend 10 years ago because of that. life is hard sometime but you can endure that , life will be better for you. Just change your environment like they said before me. Clearly its the best advice here. It worked for me and many other. The thing i did when i was younger and not very good in my mind, was to get a job in snow station alone during 4 months. at this moment you just rediscorver yourself and have other vision of life. You re not alone bro. hope you understand my poor english too
lup1nHey guys, average player of TF2. Planning to give up in life so any advice before I give up? I been suffering depression for several years now and nothing (therapy, self-regulation, Medicine) has worked. Please help me!
I'm no mental health expert but i can confirm that exercise is really good for keeping your mental health sound, It's got a lot to do with the endorphins being released which should boost your mood, as well as being outside and in generally more natural and green areas will be much healthier than staying inside, I've found that whenever i have been upset or unhappy i can go out for a jog or something along those lines.
If you feel lonely, just be sure the majority of the people on this thread probably do not know you and yet all of us are here to help in any way possible, the tf2 community is very accepting aside from the shitposters which you should pay no attention to. I'm sure the majority of the people here are willing to talk if it makes you feel any better.
I don't know the context of what's happening either, but i can assure you that being strong and determined now will pay off so much once you have pulled through.
I wish you the best, stay safe.
[quote=lup1n]Hey guys, average player of TF2. Planning to give up in life so any advice before I give up? I been suffering depression for several years now and nothing (therapy, self-regulation, Medicine) has worked. Please help me![/quote]
I'm no mental health expert but i can confirm that exercise is really good for keeping your mental health sound, It's got a lot to do with the endorphins being released which should boost your mood, as well as being outside and in generally more natural and green areas will be much healthier than staying inside, I've found that whenever i have been upset or unhappy i can go out for a jog or something along those lines.
If you feel lonely, just be sure the majority of the people on this thread probably do not know you and yet all of us are here to help in any way possible, the tf2 community is very accepting aside from the shitposters which you should pay no attention to. I'm sure the majority of the people here are willing to talk if it makes you feel any better.
I don't know the context of what's happening either, but i can assure you that being strong and determined now will pay off so much once you have pulled through.
I wish you the best, stay safe.
I'm no mental health expert but i can confirm that exercise is really good for keeping your mental health sound, It's got a lot to do with the endorphins being released which should boost your mood, as well as being outside and in generally more natural and green areas will be much healthier than staying inside, I've found that whenever i have been upset or unhappy i can go out for a jog or something along those lines.
If you feel lonely, just be sure the majority of the people on this thread probably do not know you and yet all of us are here to help in any way possible, the tf2 community is very accepting aside from the shitposters which you should pay no attention to. I'm sure the majority of the people here are willing to talk if it makes you feel any better.
I don't know the context of what's happening either, but i can assure you that being strong and determined now will pay off so much once you have pulled through.
I wish you the best, stay safe.
knsumehello extrasolar's alt
https://i.imgur.com/dViAl2w.jpg
Sorry i'm not trying to cause trouble. He just asked me for help in this forum.
[quote=knsume]hello extrasolar's alt[/quote]
https://i.imgur.com/dViAl2w.jpg
Sorry i'm not trying to cause trouble. He just asked me for help in this forum.
https://i.imgur.com/dViAl2w.jpg
Sorry i'm not trying to cause trouble. He just asked me for help in this forum.
Your friend should have known better, but at least he apologised.
Your friend should have known better, but at least he apologised.
Voodoo17:03 - 616: I need help
17:03 - 616: ive been banned from tftv forums saying "do it faggot" to an attention whore "im gonna kill myself" op
17:03 - 616: and ive just finished my follow-up post
17:03 - Voodoo Gums: right
17:03 - 616: can you get my message across to the thread
17:03 - Voodoo Gums: Okay, give me a few minutes
17:03 - 616: i meant no offense
17:03 - 616: my message was directed towards OP who in my opinion (I am also not the only one in this thread who has this idea) isn't actually a suicide risk and just wants attention.
17:03 - 616: here's what I was gonna post:
all memes aside friends I know some people lurking here might actually be contemplating suicide, my comments were directed towards OP, who as others have implied looks suspiciously like an attention-whoring faggot, but if you're actually thinking about becoming an hero, don't. Here's some advice from someone who's been there many times:
Death is permanent, but your problems, however big and difficult they may seem, are temporary. Never forget that.
Opening up about your feelings can be extremely difficult, but it can help to mend even the most broken of minds.
If you do decide to open up, even if it's just to one person, they can help ease the pain of your struggle.
To not open up to people is to do yourself and those around you a disservice. Don't bottle up feelings, you'll explode.
Friends are, well, your friends. They're your support structure and social feedback network. Help them to help you.
Arranging your life in a way that suits you and keeps you motivated is key. Make a schedule and stick to it.
Gradually you'll notice an improvement in your life if you stay active, eat well and actually talk to people.
Going outside and talking to people might seem scary to you, but remember many people are scared of less!
Ostracism is the worst thing for a depressed mind. You end up torturing yourself in your own mental prison.
To love yourself is the most important thing in the world. If you can't love yourself, you can't love another person.
if you're really stuck for motivation at any point, this may help you: https://youtube.com/watch?v=QOzXRpLD-XU
your friend should know when it's appropriate to post a retarded comment, if the guy was just looking for attention then it's just another shitpost however the possibility that there's the slightest chance OP is actually suicidal one negative comment could push em over the edge to commit the act.
[quote=Voodoo]17:03 - 616: I need help
17:03 - 616: ive been banned from tftv forums saying "do it faggot" to an attention whore "im gonna kill myself" op
17:03 - 616: and ive just finished my follow-up post
17:03 - Voodoo Gums: right
17:03 - 616: can you get my message across to the thread
17:03 - Voodoo Gums: Okay, give me a few minutes
17:03 - 616: i meant no offense
17:03 - 616: my message was directed towards OP who in my opinion (I am also not the only one in this thread who has this idea) isn't actually a suicide risk and just wants attention.
17:03 - 616: here's what I was gonna post:
all memes aside friends I know some people lurking here might actually be contemplating suicide, my comments were directed towards OP, who as others have implied looks suspiciously like an attention-whoring faggot, but if you're actually thinking about becoming an hero, don't. Here's some advice from someone who's been there many times:
Death is permanent, but your problems, however big and difficult they may seem, are temporary. [b]Never[/b] forget that.
Opening up about your feelings can be extremely difficult, but it can help to mend even the most broken of minds.
If you do decide to open up, even if it's just to one person, they can help ease the pain of your struggle.
To not open up to people is to do yourself and those around you a disservice. Don't bottle up feelings, you'll explode.
Friends are, well, your friends. They're your support structure and social feedback network. Help them to help you.
Arranging your life in a way that suits you and keeps you motivated is key. Make a schedule and stick to it.
Gradually you'll notice an improvement in your life if you stay active, eat well and actually talk to people.
Going outside and talking to people might seem scary to you, but remember many people are scared of less!
Ostracism is the worst thing for a depressed mind. You end up torturing yourself in your own mental prison.
To love yourself is the most important thing in the world. If you can't love yourself, you can't love another person.
if you're really stuck for motivation at any point, this may help you: https://youtube.com/watch?v=QOzXRpLD-XU[/quote]
your friend should know when it's appropriate to post a retarded comment, if the guy was just looking for attention then it's just another shitpost however the possibility that there's the slightest chance OP is actually suicidal one negative comment could push em over the edge to commit the act.
17:03 - 616: ive been banned from tftv forums saying "do it faggot" to an attention whore "im gonna kill myself" op
17:03 - 616: and ive just finished my follow-up post
17:03 - Voodoo Gums: right
17:03 - 616: can you get my message across to the thread
17:03 - Voodoo Gums: Okay, give me a few minutes
17:03 - 616: i meant no offense
17:03 - 616: my message was directed towards OP who in my opinion (I am also not the only one in this thread who has this idea) isn't actually a suicide risk and just wants attention.
17:03 - 616: here's what I was gonna post:
all memes aside friends I know some people lurking here might actually be contemplating suicide, my comments were directed towards OP, who as others have implied looks suspiciously like an attention-whoring faggot, but if you're actually thinking about becoming an hero, don't. Here's some advice from someone who's been there many times:
Death is permanent, but your problems, however big and difficult they may seem, are temporary. [b]Never[/b] forget that.
Opening up about your feelings can be extremely difficult, but it can help to mend even the most broken of minds.
If you do decide to open up, even if it's just to one person, they can help ease the pain of your struggle.
To not open up to people is to do yourself and those around you a disservice. Don't bottle up feelings, you'll explode.
Friends are, well, your friends. They're your support structure and social feedback network. Help them to help you.
Arranging your life in a way that suits you and keeps you motivated is key. Make a schedule and stick to it.
Gradually you'll notice an improvement in your life if you stay active, eat well and actually talk to people.
Going outside and talking to people might seem scary to you, but remember many people are scared of less!
Ostracism is the worst thing for a depressed mind. You end up torturing yourself in your own mental prison.
To love yourself is the most important thing in the world. If you can't love yourself, you can't love another person.
if you're really stuck for motivation at any point, this may help you: https://youtube.com/watch?v=QOzXRpLD-XU[/quote]
your friend should know when it's appropriate to post a retarded comment, if the guy was just looking for attention then it's just another shitpost however the possibility that there's the slightest chance OP is actually suicidal one negative comment could push em over the edge to commit the act.
I approve of the ban.
I'd extend it to other silly kids who think they're being funny like syph too
Nice post Valorous btw. And you're right
I approve of the ban.
I'd extend it to other silly kids who think they're being funny like syph too
Nice post Valorous btw. And you're right
I'd extend it to other silly kids who think they're being funny like syph too
Nice post Valorous btw. And you're right
Agreed, anybody stupid enough to joke on a matter like this has done more than enough to merit a ban from what i see.
I do hope that OP responds some time soon, at least i hope the responses on this thread have offered reassurance and empathy as intended.
Agreed, anybody stupid enough to joke on a matter like this has done more than enough to merit a ban from what i see.
I do hope that OP responds some time soon, at least i hope the responses on this thread have offered reassurance and empathy as intended.
I do hope that OP responds some time soon, at least i hope the responses on this thread have offered reassurance and empathy as intended.
well lock this thread turns out it was a bait. Now I Feel like a dumbass writing all that long ass paragraph
well lock this thread turns out it was a bait. Now I Feel like a dumbass writing all that long ass paragraph
lup1nHey guys, average player of TF2. Planning to give up in life so any advice before I give up? I been suffering depression for several years now and nothing (therapy, self-regulation, Medicine) has worked. Please help me!
go to partial hospitalization if you arent gonna kill yourself
go to a psych ward if you think you are going to
[quote=lup1n]Hey guys, average player of TF2. Planning to give up in life so any advice before I give up? I been suffering depression for several years now and nothing (therapy, self-regulation, Medicine) has worked. Please help me![/quote]
go to partial hospitalization if you arent gonna kill yourself
go to a psych ward if you think you are going to
go to partial hospitalization if you arent gonna kill yourself
go to a psych ward if you think you are going to
ValorousTFbait? how?
isnt it obvious? figure out yourself, and I'm p sure dozens here have already realised too and is not the 1st time someone posts that they are gonna suicide to get upvotes just lock this, the post itself has negative votes too
[quote=ValorousTF]bait? how?[/quote]
isnt it obvious? figure out yourself, and I'm p sure dozens here have already realised too and is not the 1st time someone posts that they are gonna suicide to get upvotes just lock this, the post itself has negative votes too
isnt it obvious? figure out yourself, and I'm p sure dozens here have already realised too and is not the 1st time someone posts that they are gonna suicide to get upvotes just lock this, the post itself has negative votes too
KEVCHEVcringe ^
is there a post that has more downfrags than this
the only other one that i can think of was b4nny's response to that one se7en video
[quote=KEVCHEV]cringe ^[/quote]
is there a post that has more downfrags than this
the only other one that i can think of was b4nny's response to that one se7en video
is there a post that has more downfrags than this
the only other one that i can think of was b4nny's response to that one se7en video
crabfKEVCHEVcringe ^is there a post that has more downfrags than this
the only other one that i can think of was b4nny's response to that one se7en video
guilty as charged!
[quote=crabf][quote=KEVCHEV]cringe ^[/quote]
is there a post that has more downfrags than this
the only other one that i can think of was b4nny's response to that one se7en video[/quote]
guilty as charged!
is there a post that has more downfrags than this
the only other one that i can think of was b4nny's response to that one se7en video[/quote]
guilty as charged!
just to end this:
If you really think about suicide and yet you go to therapy and get medicine and shit that means that whoever is paying for that cares a shit ton about you. Millions of people have it worse and they push on. It is a fact that people who want to commit suicide are people who refuse to see reality as it is. Reality is a bitch. Life's a bitch. Everyone who doesnt want to open their eyes to accept reality as it is just want to end it. Flat out. And suicidal thoughts happen to everyone at some point of life specially if you are a young one. Some people just announce it. Reality is that you wont always have someone to stretch their hand for you. And since you mentioned that you had therapy and medicine yada yada means that you are already getting help. Dont waste it. Might sound pretencious but I legit lost my family and thought about suicide but just saying people wont always take pity on you if you tell them you are going to die.
I feel sadder for the relatives than the person who actually commits suicide. And I'm very positive that most of the people think that way. The first advice you awlays get is "think about your parents" or something.
Just in case your post is not a bait then this is an actual advice.
just to end this:
If you really think about suicide and yet you go to therapy and get medicine and shit that means that whoever is paying for that cares a shit ton about you. Millions of people have it worse and they push on. It is a fact that people who want to commit suicide are people who refuse to see reality as it is. Reality is a bitch. Life's a bitch. Everyone who doesnt want to open their eyes to accept reality as it is just want to end it. Flat out. And suicidal thoughts happen to everyone at some point of life specially if you are a young one. Some people just announce it. Reality is that you wont always have someone to stretch their hand for you. And since you mentioned that you had therapy and medicine yada yada means that you are already getting help. Dont waste it. Might sound pretencious but I legit lost my family and thought about suicide but just saying people wont always take pity on you if you tell them you are going to die.
I feel sadder for the relatives than the person who actually commits suicide. And I'm very positive that most of the people think that way. The first advice you awlays get is "think about your parents" or something.
Just in case your post is not a bait then this is an actual advice.
If you really think about suicide and yet you go to therapy and get medicine and shit that means that whoever is paying for that cares a shit ton about you. Millions of people have it worse and they push on. It is a fact that people who want to commit suicide are people who refuse to see reality as it is. Reality is a bitch. Life's a bitch. Everyone who doesnt want to open their eyes to accept reality as it is just want to end it. Flat out. And suicidal thoughts happen to everyone at some point of life specially if you are a young one. Some people just announce it. Reality is that you wont always have someone to stretch their hand for you. And since you mentioned that you had therapy and medicine yada yada means that you are already getting help. Dont waste it. Might sound pretencious but I legit lost my family and thought about suicide but just saying people wont always take pity on you if you tell them you are going to die.
I feel sadder for the relatives than the person who actually commits suicide. And I'm very positive that most of the people think that way. The first advice you awlays get is "think about your parents" or something.
Just in case your post is not a bait then this is an actual advice.
crabfKEVCHEVcringe ^is there a post that has more downfrags than this
the only other one that i can think of was b4nny's response to that one se7en video
toasterbro on b4nnys 20th birthday thread reached -411
gotta admit, its impressive how fast zar beat my record tho. i wish i was still in my shitpost prime.
[quote=crabf][quote=KEVCHEV]cringe ^[/quote]
is there a post that has more downfrags than this
the only other one that i can think of was b4nny's response to that one se7en video[/quote]
toasterbro on b4nnys 20th birthday thread reached -411
gotta admit, its impressive how fast zar beat my record tho. i wish i was still in my shitpost prime.
is there a post that has more downfrags than this
the only other one that i can think of was b4nny's response to that one se7en video[/quote]
toasterbro on b4nnys 20th birthday thread reached -411
gotta admit, its impressive how fast zar beat my record tho. i wish i was still in my shitpost prime.
Hey Guys, sorry about delaying this. I am doing better now btw and I had gone to get some help.
Hey Guys, sorry about delaying this. I am doing better now btw and I had gone to get some help.
lup1nHey Guys, sorry about delaying this. I am doing better now btw and I had gone to get some help.
thats good friend stay safe
[quote=lup1n]Hey Guys, sorry about delaying this. I am doing better now btw and I had gone to get some help.[/quote]
thats good friend stay safe
thats good friend stay safe
lup1nHey Guys, sorry about delaying this. I am doing better now btw and I had gone to get some help.
good
[quote=lup1n]Hey Guys, sorry about delaying this. I am doing better now btw and I had gone to get some help.[/quote]
good
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