Hello everyone.
To start off, this has been my first season of ESEA and it's been miserable. It isn't the fact that we're losing that makes it miserable. Just the fact that it is bringing out the worst in our team. There was a time when we all played to have fun, and I actually looked forward to playing with my team. Then, it suddenly changes to us fighting among each other and getting together was something that wasn't 1st on my list.
I would like need TF.TV's help. When do I tell myself that it is time to quit? It's mainly one member of my team that's causing me this grief. His influence on other members of the team is also affecting my relationship with other team members. What should I do in this situation? Should I step up as a leader and take out the threat, or do I leave and abandon the team?
I would like to thank anyone who reads this and any advice would be appreciated.
TL;DR: Dickwad on my team needs to go or I leave. The fuck do I do with his stupid ass?
Hello everyone.
To start off, this has been my first season of ESEA and it's been [i]miserable[/i]. It isn't the fact that we're losing that makes it miserable. Just the fact that it is bringing out the worst in our team. There was a time when we all played to have fun, and I actually looked forward to playing with my team. Then, it suddenly changes to us fighting among each other and getting together was something that wasn't 1st on my list.
I [s]would like[/s] need TF.TV's help. When do I tell myself that it is time to quit? It's mainly one member of my team that's causing me this grief. His influence on other members of the team is also affecting my relationship with other team members. What should I do in this situation? Should I step up as a leader and take out the threat, or do I leave and abandon the team?
I would like to thank anyone who reads this and any advice would be appreciated.
TL;DR: Dickwad on my team needs to go or I leave. The fuck do I do with his stupid ass?
dickwad leaves, of course
dickwad leaves, of course
carnage*snip snip*
[quote=carnage]*snip snip*[/quote]
SNIP SNIP
fuk u enigma 6 seconds faster
SNIP SNIP
fuk u enigma 6 seconds faster
Instant cut. I had the same problem on my Steel team. Completely sucked the fun out of it to the point of where I quit because I couldn't take it anymore. Don't let what happened to me happen to you, good luck
Instant cut. I had the same problem on my Steel team. Completely sucked the fun out of it to the point of where I quit because I couldn't take it anymore. Don't let what happened to me happen to you, good luck
Well, he's gonna see this topic I would think.
Well, he's gonna see this topic I would think.
BRAVOgive therapist the boot
LOL. But he's not the problem. More of a side effect of the main problem.
[quote=BRAVO]give therapist the boot[/quote]
LOL. But he's not the problem. More of a side effect of the main problem.
If it's just one person, it's best to talk about it as the whole team. It's the mature way, and if they agree the person will be asked to leave, and if noone agrees and they find you to be a problem, they ask you to leave. That's the most healthy way to do it as a team and in my opinion, the only way to be mature and respectful to all parties involved. Don't be some high schooler gossiping around other people backs.
If it's just one person, it's best to talk about it as the whole team. It's the mature way, and if they agree the person will be asked to leave, and if noone agrees and they find you to be a problem, they ask you to leave. That's the most healthy way to do it as a team and in my opinion, the only way to be mature and respectful to all parties involved. Don't be some high schooler gossiping around other people backs.
I think you should l8er kitty kat
I think you should l8er kitty kat
wait arent you the one who leaves during matches and scrims cause of your mom calling you???
wait arent you the one who leaves during matches and scrims cause of your mom calling you???
Sounds like you guys need a tyrone.
Don't trip, keep calm, you got this.
but, in all honesty, you should cut the guy if he's that detrimental. If he's a carry, worse things have happened, you'll do better with people you WANT to support.
Sounds like you guys need a tyrone.
Don't trip, keep calm, you got this.
but, in all honesty, you should cut the guy if he's that detrimental. If he's a carry, worse things have happened, you'll do better with people you WANT to support.
Zillyhoowait arent you the one who leaves during matches and scrims cause of your mom calling you???
Who has two opposable thumbs and made this thread? this guy. :*
[quote=Zillyhoo]wait arent you the one who leaves during matches and scrims cause of your mom calling you???[/quote]
Who has two opposable thumbs and made this thread? this guy. :*
Before calling me a dick and a team destroying one. You might want to consider what caused all this. It might be the scheduling when we don't have 6 or maybe scheduling on the 4th of July. Some other stuff. Leaving early during matches. Not rescheduling stuff when we need it to be. Leaving early from matches really hurts us all when we are paying to play and win games and have fun. It makes it so we don't have enough players and we get low morale because we lose games to not having 5. As a player and part of the team it really sucks. On top of that. Scrimming is a fun thing to do. We aren't able to improve as a team and as players if we can never scrim because someone doesn't have the time to play and if he does he leaves early. All these problems led to this. Think about this. We paid for this and we wanted to have fun and win some games. So before you start making this hate thread on me. Think what you did to bring this to yourself.
Before calling me a dick and a team destroying one. You might want to consider what caused all this. It might be the scheduling when we don't have 6 or maybe scheduling on the 4th of July. Some other stuff. Leaving early during matches. Not rescheduling stuff when we need it to be. Leaving early from matches really hurts us all when we are paying to play and win games and have fun. It makes it so we don't have enough players and we get low morale because we lose games to not having 5. As a player and part of the team it really sucks. On top of that. Scrimming is a fun thing to do. We aren't able to improve as a team and as players if we can never scrim because someone doesn't have the time to play and if he does he leaves early. All these problems led to this. Think about this. We paid for this and we wanted to have fun and win some games. So before you start making this hate thread on me. Think what you did to bring this to yourself.
Red we are paying to play
aren't you all getting paid for by someone else
[quote=Red] we are paying to play [/quote]
aren't you all getting paid for by someone else
So before you devote the time to making open team where you all are paying and committing to showing up to your team. Think if you have the time to do it. I don't think you ever thought about that.
So before you devote the time to making open team where you all are paying and committing to showing up to your team. Think if you have the time to do it. I don't think you ever thought about that.
Red excuses
No need to explain yourself here. Say sorry to him personally.
[quote=Red] excuses [/quote]
No need to explain yourself here. Say sorry to him personally.
ZillyhooRed we are paying to play
aren't you all getting paid for by someone else
No we aren't. We were supposed to by Revolt's friend which was the original motive to play. He never came through and paid for us. So we ended up paying for ourselves or a few of us paying for the other players. (R3volt, Sentient, trngl)
[quote=Zillyhoo][quote=Red] we are paying to play [/quote]
aren't you all getting paid for by someone else[/quote]
No we aren't. We were supposed to by Revolt's friend which was the original motive to play. He never came through and paid for us. So we ended up paying for ourselves or a few of us paying for the other players. (R3volt, Sentient, trngl)
AYYY PIZZA PIZZA PAPA JOHNS
AYYY PIZZA PIZZA PAPA JOHNS
BRAVOgive therapist the boot
that boy needs therapy
[quote=BRAVO]give therapist the boot[/quote]
that boy needs therapy
[img]http://sc2gifs.com/gifs/apollo-mindblown.gif[/img]
Red-snip-
I made the thread so I could get some advice. The choice is a tough one mate. I don't want to leave. Neither do I want you to go. But you're not making it fun at all to play honestly. You told me in Blands week that I didn't matter to the team. TF.TV doesn't need to hear this honestly, PM me.
[quote=Red]-snip-[/quote]
I made the thread so I could get some advice. The choice is a tough one mate. I don't want to leave. Neither do I want you to go. But you're not making it fun at all to play honestly. You told me in Blands week that I didn't matter to the team. TF.TV doesn't need to hear this honestly, PM me.
THREAD SMELLS OF DRAMA
LATER KITTY KATS
Edit: Also was it necessary to call out your teammate on a thread?
Talk to him in mumble, there's no need to do this
THREAD SMELLS OF DRAMA
LATER KITTY KATS
Edit: Also was it necessary to call out your teammate on a thread?
Talk to him in mumble, there's no need to do this
RedBefore calling me a dick and a team destroying one. You might want to consider what caused all this. It might be the scheduling when we don't have 6 or maybe scheduling on the 4th of July. Some other stuff. Leaving early during matches. Not rescheduling stuff when we need it to be. Leaving early from matches really hurts us all when we are paying to play and win games and have fun. It makes it so we don't have enough players and we get low morale because we lose games to not having 5. As a player and part of the team it really sucks. On top of that. Scrimming is a fun thing to do. We aren't able to improve as a team and as players if we can never scrim because someone doesn't have the time to play and if he does he leaves early. All these problems led to this. Think about this. We paid for this and we wanted to have fun and win some games. So before you start making this hate thread on me. Think what you did to bring this to yourself.
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[quote=Red]Before calling me a dick and a team destroying one. You might want to consider what caused all this. It might be the scheduling when we don't have 6 or maybe scheduling on the 4th of July. Some other stuff. Leaving early during matches. Not rescheduling stuff when we need it to be. Leaving early from matches really hurts us all when we are paying to play and win games and have fun. It makes it so we don't have enough players and we get low morale because we lose games to not having 5. As a player and part of the team it really sucks. On top of that. Scrimming is a fun thing to do. We aren't able to improve as a team and as players if we can never scrim because someone doesn't have the time to play and if he does he leaves early. All these problems led to this. Think about this. We paid for this and we wanted to have fun and win some games. So before you start making this hate thread on me. Think what you did to bring this to yourself.[/quote]
[img]http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ltf3zdO9SE1qcsp5b.gif[/img]
On top of all that. You promised us we wouldn't have to pay for our premium and what did we get? A guy that never paid them. That was the original motive for this team and it didn't happen.
On top of all that. You promised us we wouldn't have to pay for our premium and what did we get? A guy that never paid them. That was the original motive for this team and it didn't happen.
kawaiiBRAVOgive therapist the boot
that boy needs therapy
Sorry if I upset you in some way, I added you to talk about it, please accept.
EDIT: oh its a reference to something ok.
[quote=kawaii][quote=BRAVO]give therapist the boot[/quote]
that boy needs therapy[/quote]
Sorry if I upset you in some way, I added you to talk about it, please accept.
EDIT: oh its a reference to something ok.
TherapistkawaiiBRAVOgive therapist the boot
that boy needs therapy
Sorry if I upset you in some way, I added you to talk about it, please accept.
it's a reference to Frontier Psychiatrist
[quote=Therapist][quote=kawaii][quote=BRAVO]give therapist the boot[/quote]
that boy needs therapy[/quote]
Sorry if I upset you in some way, I added you to talk about it, please accept.[/quote]
it's a reference to Frontier Psychiatrist
ZillyhooTHREAD SMELLS OF DRAMA
LATER KITTY KATS
Edit: Also was it necessary to call out your teammate on a thread?
Talk to him in mumble, there's no need to do this
I already said that I made this thread for advice.
[quote=Zillyhoo]THREAD SMELLS OF DRAMA
LATER KITTY KATS
Edit: Also was it necessary to call out your teammate on a thread?
Talk to him in mumble, there's no need to do this[/quote]
I already said that I made this thread for advice.
red arent you that 12 year old kid who insults people through youtube comments
red arent you that 12 year old kid who insults people through youtube comments