i got into an argument wiht my parents and it was pretty bad. I sound whiny but im just in a postargument panic mode right now they said they won't help me with anything anymore and im afraid. i don't know how im going to get to any of my activities or school i just don't know. my sister is in collage so im stuck in this house with them and its awful i feel alone. i feel so lonely and i just need to vent my anxiety and im afraid whats going to happen next i don't know how im gonna be able to keep studying with these parents really bringing me donw. I know this sounds like a bullshit story or like im just overreacting but i just feel so lonely right now. I don't know what to do. please can you guys tell me what to do. i don't know. ifeel helpless i feel so alone
i have been witness to many fights between my brother and my parents and from what I learned, it's much better to have your parents support at a young age (until you move out) so if the fight was real bad, you should probably apologize to them sooner or later.
what do you mean tell you what to do? You haven't given us a clear description of your situation. How the fuck should we know what you should do? Tell us what the argument was about, why they said they won't support you anymore, etc.
Kinda hard to give you any advice without context on the situation, but here's some general high school advice:
Take it easy -- feelings like this don't last forever, and in the near future, you will look back forgetting why you were ever upset in the first place.
The best advice I could give for anyone struggling with their parents is to lay low. You really have no control over your situation because you aren't independent. If you can appease your parents and not give them any reason to be angry with you in the first place, you'll be a lot better off mentally until you can become independent. It's a lot easier to just take the blame and apologize than try to argue in these situations as well.
Stay the course, handle your business and focus on getting through each day. Limit the interactions you have with your parents, they won't blow up on you if you don't give them any reason to (unless they're crazy). If you're dealing with stress outside your family life that you are having trouble dealing with, talk to your school's counseling center. It's free and they are paid to help you.
Take it easy -- feelings like this don't last forever, and in the near future, you will look back forgetting why you were ever upset in the first place.
The best advice I could give for anyone struggling with their parents is to lay low. You really have no control over your situation because you aren't independent. If you can appease your parents and not give them any reason to be angry with you in the first place, you'll be a lot better off mentally until you can become independent. It's a lot easier to just take the blame and apologize than try to argue in these situations as well.
Stay the course, handle your business and focus on getting through each day. Limit the interactions you have with your parents, they won't blow up on you if you don't give them any reason to (unless they're crazy). If you're dealing with stress outside your family life that you are having trouble dealing with, talk to your school's counseling center. It's free and they are paid to help you.
ask for forgiveness and let them know youve reflected on your actions
tell them that you are ready for any consequences theyll give you
hug ye dad and smooch ye mum. habby famly again
tell them that you are ready for any consequences theyll give you
hug ye dad and smooch ye mum. habby famly again
Working out makes me forget everything(preferably outside), give it a try.
Thank you so much smesi for adding me within 15 seconds of the thread and being somebody that I could vent my feelings to. Thank you all for the support and advice it means a lot to me that people will care about total strangers over the internet. Just thank you.