400 respondents so far. The results are interesting
- 64% were beaten, 36% were not
- 52% think corporal punishment is justified, 48% think it's not
- out of those that have received physical punishment as children, 65% think it's justified
- out of those that have not received physical punishment as children, 72% think it's not justified
- out of those that think it's justified, 82% were beaten as kids, 18% were not personally beaten
- out of those that think it's not justified, 53% were not personally beaten and 47% were
As for my personal experiences, I'm a 22 year old slav so my parents did beat me as a kid (mostly my mom, my dad is bae). However, compared to some of the things posted here, mine was mild. It was almost exclusively getting single slaps when I went out of line or my mom chasing me around the house trying to whack my ass with a rolling pin (not the thick American style rolling pins, ours are thin and long, basically a rigid switch).
Personally, I don't know if beating your kid is justified or not. Sure, you can make the argument that you can always sit them down and say just the right words in just the right way that'll make them stop misbehaving, but in reality, that's not always the case. Parents are human too. They don't always know what to say. They have jobs, they have stressful lives, and kids can sometimes be insufferable little cunts. Sometimes they either refuse to listen or are too young to understand what's being said to them (like Osiris's response back on page 1).
So yeh, I think that physical punishment is justifiable but only if it's used as a last resort, not as a lazy shortcut to discipline.
As for it being traumatic, well, I think it all depends on the culture/zeitgeist (and whether your relationship with your parents is otherwise healthy and loving). Everyone my age got whacked by their parents as a kid and no one considers him/herself traumatized because it's just the way things were for us. Same goes for even older generations where it was normal to not only get beaten by your parents, but teachers and more distant relatives too. It might seem barbaric, but since it happened to literally everyone, no one feels it as trauma. But I guess if you grow up in a culture where everyone keeps telling you that if your parents ever laid a hand on you, it's abuse and you should be traumatized, then you will end up traumatized.
And don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that actual abuse doesn't exist and isn't traumatic. All I'm saying is, not all physical punishment is wrong
Edit: added some more stats that I forgot the first time