Going out with a girl, I mean.
I was thinking that for the first time hanging out with the girl I like, I could get a mutual friend to tag along with us. The pros are that the girl will feel more relaxed and comfortable to have someone else around, that she will be more likely to accept to "go out" with me in the first place, and that she won't really know that I want her. The cons are that it might be seen as too "friendly" of an excursion and that it might move me closer to the friend zone, and that the other friend could cockblock by accident. Of course the pros and cons are my opinions from what I have seen and from what I believe, that's why I'm making this topic. So, should I try to arrange it where three of us hang out, or should I try to work it out so that it's a real date type thing between just the two of us?
Going out with a girl, I mean.
I was thinking that for the first time hanging out with the girl I like, I could get a mutual friend to tag along with us. The pros are that the girl will feel more relaxed and comfortable to have someone else around, that she will be more likely to accept to "go out" with me in the first place, and that she won't really know that I want her. The cons are that it might be seen as too "friendly" of an excursion and that it might move me closer to the friend zone, and that the other friend could cockblock by accident. Of course the pros and cons are my opinions from what I have seen and from what I believe, that's why I'm making this topic. So, should I try to arrange it where three of us hang out, or should I try to work it out so that it's a real date type thing between just the two of us?
If you can pull the threesome off, you will go down in tf2 as the greatest relationshiphaver in tf2 history.
relationshiphaver420
If you can pull the threesome off, you will go down in tf2 as the greatest relationshiphaver in tf2 history.
relationshiphaver420
Dude if you really like her just take her out on a nice date and put the moves on her. I guess if you don't know her that well you could do some group thing, but honestly do you really want that other person there when you're trying to seduce your girl?
Be a man. You can do it. :D
Dude if you really like her just take her out on a nice date and put the moves on her. I guess if you don't know her that well you could do some group thing, but honestly do you really want that other person there when you're trying to seduce your girl?
Be a man. You can do it. :D
bringing in a 3rd party will only complicate things jack
bringing in a 3rd party will only complicate things jack
also click baiting is a sin
also click baiting is a sin
I'm so happy these threads have continued over from natf2.
My relationships may have been in jeopardy.
I'm so happy these threads have continued over from natf2.
My relationships may have been in jeopardy.
Let her know as soon as you can, don't take too long to tell her or she'll assume you just want to be friends. So you can go with this other friend, but you have to let him know that he's the wingman. You're trying to get with this girl, so he can't be overly friendly or cut you out of the conversation etc. And this all comes from personal experience. If you take too long to ask her, it'll just end up hurting more in long run if you get let down.
Let her know as soon as you can, don't take too long to tell her or she'll assume you just want to be friends. So you can go with this other friend, but you have to let him know that he's the wingman. You're trying to get with this girl, so he can't be overly friendly or cut you out of the conversation etc. And this all comes from personal experience. If you take too long to ask her, it'll just end up hurting more in long run if you get let down.
i had this problem last summer and i wound up sealing the deal with both of them within five months of eachother.
#yolo
i had this problem last summer and i wound up sealing the deal with both of them within five months of eachother.
#yolo
assuming the mutual friend is a chick unless you're still at cootie age
assuming the mutual friend is a chick unless you're still at cootie age
Don't bring a friend and ask her out on a proper date. If she says no, move on. At least then you will not be placed in the friend zone and the intentions are right out on the table.
Don't bring a friend and ask her out on a proper date. If she says no, move on. At least then you will not be placed in the friend zone and the intentions are right out on the table.
YES! Stultus threads made it to tf.tv
that has to be the end of natf2.com
YES! Stultus threads made it to tf.tv
that has to be the end of natf2.com
also take a hot friend with you, a hot girl friend, get them drunk, see how things turn out
also take a hot friend with you, a hot girl friend, get them drunk, see how things turn out
just the two of you, whats the worst case scenario? she doesnt like you and you're still single after plus you gain xp like in teh video gamez. You have nothing to lose friend.
just the two of you, whats the worst case scenario? she doesnt like you and you're [u]still[/u] single after plus you gain xp like in teh video gamez. You have nothing to lose friend.
guy / guy / girl : no
guy / girl / girl : yes
guy / guy / guy : yes
guy / guy / girl : no
guy / girl / girl : yes
guy / guy / guy : [b]yes[/b]
Ggglygy with the knowledge.
If you're really interested, go for just the two of you. Dunno if having a third party makes it a "date",
Ggglygy with the knowledge.
If you're really interested, go for just the two of you. Dunno if having a third party makes it a "date",
3rd wheel is NEVER a good idea. You don't want to get stuck in the "friend" zone. Make it clear that it's a date.
3rd wheel is NEVER a good idea. You don't want to get stuck in the "friend" zone. Make it [u]clear[/u] that it's a date.
[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DYA6T5G5-Ig&feature=plcp[/youtube]
Either she's interested in you or she's not...just ask her out directly and find out. It saves both of you time and confusion and eliminates the possibility of getting friend-zoned. Plus, your chances are better if you show that you have the confidence to just man up and ask her out rather than beating around the bush.
Either she's interested in you or she's not...just ask her out directly and find out. It saves both of you time and confusion and eliminates the possibility of getting friend-zoned. Plus, your chances are better if you show that you have the confidence to just man up and ask her out rather than beating around the bush.
how does this keep working
how does this keep working
This is how it starts. Next thing you know, you're in a devil's triangle with her and her meth dealer, trying to remember the last time you took a decent hot shower.
This is how it starts. Next thing you know, you're in a devil's triangle with her and her meth dealer, trying to remember the last time you took a decent hot shower.
Bring along a mutual friend and have him leave at a "convenient time" but not before he says "I'll leave you two alone now" and winks slyly
Bring along a mutual friend and have him leave at a "convenient time" but not before he says "I'll leave you two alone now" and winks slyly
When I asked her if she wanted to go out and see a movie tonight. She said "sorry Jack, I have things to do." Later I looked on her Facebook and new photos of her at a party showed up, so I guess it was planned beforehand. I'll ask her next weekend then.
When I asked her if she wanted to go out and see a movie tonight. She said "sorry Jack, I have things to do." Later I looked on her Facebook and new photos of her at a party showed up, so I guess it was planned beforehand. I'll ask her next weekend then.
The third wheel will feel awkward if it's her friend. If it's your friend then thats kinda weird as well and make her awkward.
Awkwardness is contagious and a third wheel will make you all feel awkward if you're getting to know her and you're interested (which she knows you are since you've asked her so many times) Just go with her to a place where you can talk a lot. If you're not comfortable making conversation, take her to a movie and talk about that. But keep it calm and relaxed, just don't bring a third wheel because whoever's not being talked to will feel awkward and it's contagious. You can always have her bring a friend and you bring one, but that would be like a big group hanging out so don't expect to really connect to her that time, but it opens up further opportunities to go 1:1 with her next time. Good luck and don't be desperate, hoes be disposable.
The third wheel will feel awkward if it's her friend. If it's your friend then thats kinda weird as well and make her awkward.
Awkwardness is contagious and a third wheel will make you all feel awkward if you're getting to know her and you're interested (which she knows you are since you've asked her so many times) Just go with her to a place where you can talk a lot. If you're not comfortable making conversation, take her to a movie and talk about that. But keep it calm and relaxed, just don't bring a third wheel because whoever's not being talked to will feel awkward and it's contagious. You can always have her bring a friend and you bring one, but that would be like a big group hanging out so don't expect to really connect to her that time, but it opens up further opportunities to go 1:1 with her next time. Good luck and don't be desperate, hoes be disposable.