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can you have real friends online?
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#1
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someone told me today that you can't meet true friends online. i spoke to the people i thought were my friends and they agreed and now i feel so alone because i dont know anyone irl.

what's the answer?

someone told me today that you can't meet true friends online. i spoke to the people i thought were my friends and they agreed and now i feel so alone because i dont know anyone irl.

what's the answer?
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#2
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the internet isnt real

the internet isnt real
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#3
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I think you can ONLY meet real friends online my dude, I've met my girlfriend online, all my closest friends, and people that are important to me.

its as real as you make it, if you think its not then they're not "real" to you, but if you feel actual connections and have actual friendships then it is. its up to you to determine

I think you can ONLY meet real friends online my dude, I've met my girlfriend online, all my closest friends, and people that are important to me.

its as real as you make it, if you think its not then they're not "real" to you, but if you feel actual connections and have actual friendships then it is. its up to you to determine
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#4
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if the feeling isnt mutual whats the point. im spending my new years alone because i have nobody why even carry on.

if the feeling isnt mutual whats the point. im spending my new years alone because i have nobody why even carry on.
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#5
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I think it's depended what you do with your friend, and who you define as real friend
for me friend is someone who I spend time actively almost daily, and who I can trust to talk about a lot of things, whereas I think online/rl people who I talk/play with from time to time as buddies.

I think it's depended what you do with your friend, and who you define as real friend
for me friend is someone who I spend time actively almost daily, and who I can trust to talk about a lot of things, whereas I think online/rl people who I talk/play with from time to time as buddies.
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#6
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if anything people show their true personalities online because they think that there are no repercussions over the stuff they do online, your online friends are generally more real than your irl friends

if anything people show their true personalities online because they think that there are no repercussions over the stuff they do online, your online friends are generally more real than your irl friends
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#7
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if the feeling is mutual yeah sure, most of the people I've met online are better friends then the asshats I've had to deal with in real life

if the feeling is mutual yeah sure, most of the people I've met online are better friends then the asshats I've had to deal with in real life
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#8
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Wat

No idea if one of those shitty memey threads, but, if not, of course you can.

Met a mate of mine through TF2. We discovered we both live in Leeds and so we hang out fairly often, be it pub or whateber, even if he is a damn vegan. Tbf, for all I know he could hate my guts.

Maybe you picked bellends for online friends.

Wat

No idea if one of those shitty memey threads, but, if not, of course you can.

Met a mate of mine through TF2. We discovered we both live in Leeds and so we hang out fairly often, be it pub or whateber, even if he is a damn vegan. Tbf, for all I know he could hate my guts.

Maybe you picked bellends for online friends.
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#9
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Just go meet your online friends in real life

I used to think e friends weren't real until I got a bit older. Once you move away from school friends, it's just as easy to see your online ones as it is your old friends and once you've met em a few times it feels pretty real

Just go meet your online friends in real life

I used to think e friends weren't real until I got a bit older. Once you move away from school friends, it's just as easy to see your online ones as it is your old friends and once you've met em a few times it feels pretty real
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#10
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https://i.imgur.com/dmSaSB7.png?1

think u need some help bro

https://i.imgur.com/dmSaSB7.png?1

think u need some help bro
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#11
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i just want people i can talk to and play games with but im completely alone.

i just want people i can talk to and play games with but im completely alone.
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#12
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Cyanici just want people i can talk to and play games with but im completely alone.

hello im from na but ill pub with u

[quote=Cyanic]i just want people i can talk to and play games with but im completely alone.[/quote]
hello im from na but ill pub with u
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#13
newbie.tf
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vulcCyanici just want people i can talk to and play games with but im completely alone.hello im from na but ill pub with u

seconded

[quote=vulc][quote=Cyanic]i just want people i can talk to and play games with but im completely alone.[/quote]
hello im from na but ill pub with u[/quote]
seconded
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#14
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If you're for real, add me and you can join my discord, complete with band of merry men (and vulc) who specialise in playing games and talking.

If you're not, meh, can do anyway and laugh at us for being naive.

If you're for real, add me and you can join my discord, complete with band of merry men (and vulc) who specialise in playing games and talking.

If you're not, meh, can do anyway and laugh at us for being naive.
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#15
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obviously you can why is this a question

obviously you can why is this a question
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#16
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ive been hanging with the same group of people on and off online for the past couple years. i definitely think you can make valuable relationships online

ive been hanging with the same group of people on and off online for the past couple years. i definitely think you can make valuable relationships online
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#17
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StylaxWat

No idea if one of those shitty memey threads, but, if not, of course you can.

Met a mate of mine through TF2. We discovered we both live in Leeds and so we hang out fairly often, be it pub or whateber, even if he is a damn vegan. Tbf, for all I know he could hate my guts.

Maybe you picked bellends for online friends.

as stylax's irl friend (having met by chance through tf2 arranging a scrim on the etf2l discord), i can confirm wholeheartedly that you can make real "irl" friends through playing games! lan's a great example of this too, where you befriend ppl directly through playing games and tf2

following what sty said, I've dropped you an add too my man. i hope you're doing okay tonight and that you don't disregard the value of your net pals because of what a few guys have said

[quote=Stylax]Wat

No idea if one of those shitty memey threads, but, if not, of course you can.

Met a mate of mine through TF2. We discovered we both live in Leeds and so we hang out fairly often, be it pub or whateber, even if he is a damn vegan. Tbf, for all I know he could hate my guts.

Maybe you picked bellends for online friends.[/quote]

as stylax's irl friend (having met by chance through tf2 arranging a scrim on the etf2l discord), i can confirm wholeheartedly that you can make real "irl" friends through playing games! lan's a great example of this too, where you befriend ppl directly through playing games and tf2

following what sty said, I've dropped you an add too my man. i hope you're doing okay tonight and that you don't disregard the value of your net pals because of what a few guys have said
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#18
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blehvulcCyanici just want people i can talk to and play games with but im completely alone.hello im from na but ill pub with useconded

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[quote=bleh][quote=vulc][quote=Cyanic]i just want people i can talk to and play games with but im completely alone.[/quote]
hello im from na but ill pub with u[/quote]
seconded[/quote]
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#19
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#20
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You definitely can, it's just difficult if you're like me and dislike 99% of the people you meet :'(

You definitely can, it's just difficult if you're like me and dislike 99% of the people you meet :'(
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#21
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Online friends are awesome until they grow up and don't have time to hangout then it just sadzone

Online friends are awesome until they grow up and don't have time to hangout then it just sadzone
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#22
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I'm surprised to see you still doing this, this is just pitiful...

Feel free to add me again if you want, i'm willing to put drama behind if you're in this shit of a state.

I'm surprised to see you still doing this, this is just pitiful...

Feel free to add me again if you want, i'm willing to put drama behind if you're in this shit of a state.
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#23
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online friends are whatever u want them to be, everything below #9 is just fucking wet lmao

online friends are whatever u want them to be, everything below #9 is just fucking wet lmao
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#24
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you absolutely can :)

you absolutely can :)
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#25
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Depends on your definitiion of real friends

Depends on your definitiion of real friends
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#26
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smesiblehvulcCyanici just want people i can talk to and play games with but im completely alone.hello im from na but ill pub with useconded3

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[quote=smesi][quote=bleh][quote=vulc][quote=Cyanic]i just want people i can talk to and play games with but im completely alone.[/quote]
hello im from na but ill pub with u[/quote]
seconded[/quote]
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#27
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You saying we not friends Cyanic?

You saying we not friends Cyanic?
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#28
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Online people are real people, too. I've probably not talked to most of my tf2 bros in quite some time, but if any of them every needed a hand or wanted to chat I'd be there.

Online people are real people, too. I've probably not talked to most of my tf2 bros in quite some time, but if any of them every needed a hand or wanted to chat I'd be there.
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#29
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OafmealOnline people are real people, too.

the internet would be such a better place if everyone realized this

anyway I'm super thankful for all the great people I've met online and wouldn't question my relationships with them for a second

[quote=Oafmeal]Online people are real people, too.[/quote]

the internet would be such a better place if everyone realized this

anyway I'm super thankful for all the great people I've met online and wouldn't question my relationships with them for a second
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#30
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syphDepends on your definitiion of real friends

people you have a positive relationship with and enjoy being around, i think my man. that doesn't mean you have to physically be right there next to each other at all!!

[quote=syph]Depends on your definitiion of real friends[/quote]

people you have a positive relationship with and enjoy being around, i think my man. that doesn't mean you have to physically be right there next to each other at all!!
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